Monday, December 5, 2011

Accept the things I cannot change...





I’ve had a rough go at it for a while now with many different diagnosis.  First, Crohn’s Disease, then it was Celiac Disease but no Crohn’s.  Thirdly, it was both Crohn’s and Celiac disease which now brings me to the most recent diagnosis.  Celiac Disease and IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) I’m exhausted  emotionally and physically!!  After learning to cope over and over again for many years, I am once again wearing that hat.  Living with a chronic health condition presents many challenges. Learning how to meet those challenges is a process — it doesn't happen right away. I can contest to that!

But understanding more about your condition, and doing your part to manage it, can help you deal with the challenge and make it easier.  Many people find that taking an active part in the care of a chronic health condition can help them feel stronger and better equipped to deal with lots of life's ups and downs.  Attitude is everything!!

Most people go through stages in learning to cope with a chronic illness, whatever that illness may be. Someone who has just been diagnosed with a health condition might feel many things.  Some people feel confused, and worried about their health, the future and how their life will change.  For others, the situation seems unfair, causing them to feel sad, angry at themselves and those they love. I’ve felt every one of those at different times.  These feelings are all part of the coping and healing process.  Everyone's reaction is different, but they're all entirely normal.

I’ve said this before, knowledge is power.  The more you find out about your condition, the more you will feel in control and the less scary it is. Learning to live with illness is all about accepting.  Accepting the things you cannot change and living your life to the fullest.  Develop a plan with your Doctor and take action to get yourself feeling better-NOW.  However that may be, diet modifications, stress management.  It all depends on what illness it is that you have or the challenges that you are facing ahead. 

“Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.”

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